Wednesday, July 25, 2007

Fantasy Lover

Fantasy Lover
Category: Romance and Relationships

Many weeks ago I promised Gwen I would write about "living in your own fantasy." (See comments under my blog post titled "For being sweet" - Tuesday, January 23.) Only I completely forgot how I intended to subtlety segue into it.

New plan. I found a quiz over on Lakana Zee's page. It's called, "What kind of seducer are you?" My result:



Your Seduction Style: Fantasy Lover




You know that ideal love that each of us dreams of from childhood? That's you!

Not because you possess all of the ideal characteristics, but because you are a savvy shape shifter.

You have the uncanny ability to detect someone's particular fantasy...and make it you.


You inspire each person to be an idealist and passionate, and you make each moment memorable.

Even a simple coffee date with you can be the most romantic moment of someone's life.

By giving your date exactly what he or she desires, you quickly become the ideal lover.


Your abilities to make dreams come true is so strong, that you are often the love of many people's lives.

Your ex's (and even people you have simply met or been friends with) long to be yours.

No doubt you are the one others have dreamed of...your biggest challenge is finding *your* dream lover.



These quizzes can be surprisingly accurate. (Sadly, in my case especially the last line of the profile.)

I'll give you an example. It's trite, but that's good because everyone can recognize it. You've almost certainly seen this on TV or in a movie. Boyfriend blindfolds his girlfriend (or she closes her eyes) and leads her to the rooftop (invariably with a million dollar view of the city). She removes her blindfold to be greeted by a table set with a candlelit dinner and flowers (maybe there's also a violinist nearby) arranged by her wonderfully romantic boyfriend (or husband).

Living in you own fantasy means imagining a scenario (as above) and then actualizing it – to put it in less than romantic terms. ?

Why? Why should fantasies exist only in books and movies? Life can be hard. Life can be dull and repetitive. Life can be bereft of surprises and joy. Why not take opportunities to make life what we want it to be...even if it's only for a few hours in a day?

Live in your own fantasy. Or invite me to live in yours. {wink}

Signed...

Your fantasy lover

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